Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Charlie welcomes you to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach at Danville High School. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, his new school and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that Cocomelon, his Papaw and Doh, and owside).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Attitude

I’m glad you’re back for another week of the 3-Point-Play! This week, we continue our leadership series with Part III: The Attitude of a Leader.

No matter the size of your circle of influence, your attitude as a leader matters. Leadership isn’t measured by title, position, or the number of people following you, it’s measured by the way you impact those around you. Every interaction, decision, and word you speak leaves a mark.

Ask yourself: Why do I lead? Do I lead for personal glory, recognition, or selfish gain? Or do I lead as a servant, putting the needs of those I guide above my own? True leadership is not about lifting yourself up; it’s about lifting others, empowering them to reach their potential, and helping them become the best version of themselves.

Your attitude sets the tone for everyone around you. A positive, humble, and selfless attitude inspires confidence, builds trust, and motivates others. Pride, selfishness, or negativity, on the other hand, can demoralize even the most talented team.

Think about the worst boss you’ve ever had. What was their attitude like? Did they serve others first or focus on themselves? Chances are, you already know the answer. Their attitude likely centered on personal gain rather than the growth of their team.

Now think about the best leader you’ve ever had. What was their attitude like? I would bet their attitude was different, they led by serving others first, prioritizing relationships, celebrating team successes, and investing time in helping people grow. Their mindset inspired trust, loyalty, and excellence, making everyone around them want to give their best.

It really comes down to this simple principle: “What can you do for me?” versus “What can I do for you?”

Attitude. The attitude of a leader is the mindset and approach they bring to guiding others. A servant leader does not seek recognition or power. Instead, they lead with a heart to serve, uplift, and empower others, celebrating successes, listening with empathy, and prioritizing the growth of their team above their own comfort.

The greatest compliment a leader can receive isn’t applause or accolades, it’s this simple, powerful statement:

“You make me want to be my best.”

That is the mark of a true servant leader: influence through attitude, care, and example. Jon Gordon says it this way, “Great leaders don’t succeed because they are great; they succeed because they bring out the greatness in others.”

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 14 of the 3-Point-Play!

Leadership Pt. 2 - The Attitude of a Leader

#1 The Last Dance

This is just my opinion, and some may disagree, but Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player to ever put on a jersey. ESPN produced a documentary on Jordan’s final season with the Chicago Bulls, who were three-peat champions for the second time, titled The Last Dance.

But Jordan’s greatness wasn’t just about his talent on the court—it was also about his approach to leadership. Leading by serving others and bringing out their best isn’t just for coaches or business leaders; it’s just as important in basketball. The Last Dance shows that what made Jordan a truly extraordinary leader went beyond his scoring ability or individual accolades—it was the way he pushed, inspired, and empowered his teammates to achieve greatness together.

Jordan’s leadership was defined by his relentless pursuit of excellence—not just for himself, but for his teammates. He held everyone to the highest standard (including himself), pushing them to improve and reach their full potential. In practice, this sometimes meant tough criticism or intense challenges, but his goal was never to tear someone down, it was to help them grow. By demanding accountability and effort from everyone, he created a culture where the team could excel together.

A key aspect of Jordan’s servant leadership was his ability to celebrate the successes of his teammates while still driving them to be better. Whether it was encouraging a younger player to step up in a crucial moment or praising a teammate’s clutch performance, Jordan knew that lifting others helped the whole team succeed. He didn’t lead for personal glory; he led so the team could achieve greatness as a collective unit.

Jordan also led by example. His work ethic, preparation, and focus were unmatched, and his teammates saw firsthand what it meant to give maximum effort every day. By modeling the behaviors he expected from others, he inspired his teammates to raise their own standards. This combination of accountability, support, and example is the essence of servant leadership, getting results not by asserting authority, but by empowering others to be their best.

Ultimately, Michael Jordan’s leadership shows that even the most talented individuals need to serve others to build a championship team. In The Last Dance, we see that greatness is never achieved alone. True leadership, as Jordan demonstrated, is about challenging, supporting, and empowering those around you. It’s not just about your talent—it’s about how your attitude, care, and example bring out the greatness in others.

“You ask all my teammates, the one thing about Michael Jordan was, He never asked me to do something that he didn’t do.”

#2 “The Son of Man Did Not Come to Be Served”

The greatest example of servant leadership we have is Jesus.

“For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” — Mark 10:45

This foundational Scripture shows us that true leadership is not about seeking personal recognition, power, or reward—it is about serving others. Jesus is the ultimate model of what real leadership looks like. He consistently put others before Himself, prioritized the needs of those He led, and gave sacrificially for the benefit of the group. Every action, word, and decision of His ministry was focused on lifting others and pointing them toward the greater purpose of God’s kingdom.

True servant leadership requires humility and selflessness. Your success comes last, your wants come last, and even your dreams and desires are often put in the rearview mirror when the greater good of the team, group, or mission is at stake. A servant leader doesn’t lead to elevate themselves, they lead to elevate others, to empower those around them, and to create an environment where everyone can thrive.

And ultimately, Jesus gave the greatest demonstration of servant leadership through the sacrifice of His life for those He loved and led.

“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.” — John 15:13

This verse perfectly illustrates selfless leadership and sacrificial love, key principles of servant leadership. Now, you will probably never be called to sacrifice your life for those you lead, but leadership has a cost. It costs all leaders something. What are you willing to give up for those in your charge?

Leadership isn’t just about authority, influence, or position; it’s about love in action, putting the needs of others above your own, and being willing to make personal sacrifices for the good of the people you lead. Jesus’ example sets the standard for every leader: to guide with humility, serve with compassion, and sacrifice when necessary.

When we follow this model, leadership becomes more than a role or title, it becomes a calling to serve, empower, and inspire. Whether on the basketball court, in the classroom, at work, or in our communities, the attitude of a servant leader is the attitude that transforms people and leaves a lasting impact. The question for us is: Are we willing to lead like Jesus—serving first, lifting others, and putting their needs above our own?

Think about your situation, your circle of influence.

The truth is, leadership is never about you, it’s about who you serve, how you serve them, and the difference you make in their lives. Every choice, every action, every word has the power to lift someone up or tear them down. The question isn’t whether you have authority or talent, it’s whether your attitude reflects a heart to serve. Leaders who put others first leave a legacy far greater than any title, trophy, or accolade ever could. So ask yourself: Will I lead for my own gain, or will I lead like Jesus, selfless, sacrificial, and focused on bringing out the best in those around me?

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• In your current circle of influence, are you leading for personal recognition, or are you putting the needs of others first?

• What is one thing—time, comfort, or personal preference—you could sacrifice this week to serve someone you lead or influence?

• How can you model the behaviors and attitudes you want your team, classmates, or coworkers to follow?

• Who in your life could benefit from your servant leadership right now, and what practical step can you take to lift them up?

• Looking at Jesus’ example, how do you want your leadership to be remembered? Are you leaving a legacy of serving, empowering, and inspiring others?

Leadership is not a title, a position, or a spotlight, it’s a choice, a daily decision to put others first, lift them up, and push them toward their best. The question isn’t whether you have authority—it’s whether your attitude reflects a heart to serve. Will you settle for leading for yourself, or will you step into the kind of leadership that transforms lives, builds teams, and leaves a legacy that lasts far beyond today?

The mark of a true leader isn’t the applause you receive, the trophies you earn, or the power you hold, it’s the difference you make in the lives of those you lead. Every challenge is an opportunity to serve, every moment a chance to empower, and every decision a test of your attitude. The choice is clear: lead for yourself, or lead for others.

In a world where everyone tells you to take care of yourself, chase your own success, and put your needs first, there is a greater example to follow, the greatest leader who ever lived. In the end, leadership is measured not by what you accomplish for yourself, but by the lives you transform and the hearts you impact.

Lead like Jesus. You won’t regret it, and your impact will be eternal.

Thanks for reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Charlie welcomes you to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach at Danville High School. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that Cocomelon, his Papaw and Doh, and his big brother).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Confidence

I am glad that you are back for another week of the 3-Point-Play.

Confidence. Every good leader has it, leads with it, and instills it in others. Not in an arrogant or self-promoting way, but in a way that inspires trust and belief. True confidence isn’t loud — it’s steady. When a leader has it, you don’t have to be told; you just know. It doesn’t boast — it reassures. It’s the kind of quiet strength that makes others feel secure, even when circumstances are uncertain.

Imagine Abraham Lincoln being hesitant during the Civil War, Franklin Roosevelt wavering during the Great Depression, or Moses showing fear in front of Pharaoh. How different would history look? Confident leaders are easy to follow. They make others believe the impossible can become possible, the unachievable achievable, and the unimaginable imaginable.

But here’s the truth that separates Godly confidence from worldly confidence: the source. Worldly confidence depends on self — our education, our experiences, our strength, our skills, our strategy. Godly confidence depends on Him — His power, His promises, His presence.

Moses wasn’t confident because of who he was; he was confident because of who God was. David didn’t face Goliath because he trusted his sling; he trusted his Savior. And Paul, standing before kings and chains, could say, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). These leaders didn’t rely on themselves; they relied on God. They weren’t confident because of who they were, but because of whose they were.

Leadership built on self will eventually collapse under pressure. Leadership grounded in God produces a confidence that cannot be shaken — because it isn’t ours to begin with.

• Self-confidence says: “I’ve got this, and I trust myself.”

• God-confidence says: “God has this, and I trust Him.”

It takes true humility and spiritual maturity to fully embrace this kind of leadership. As Psalm 24:1 reminds us:

“The Earth is the Lord’s, and the fullness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein.”

Everything we lead, steward, or influence belongs to God. The very air we breathe is the Lord’s. Every heartbeat, every thought, every firing of a synapse in our brain belongs to Him. It is only through His mercy and grace that we are granted another breath — let alone the privilege of leading others in any way.

Understanding this truth frees a leader from the burden of self-reliance and from the weight of others’ judgment. As Nick Saban once said, “If you want to be liked — sell ice cream.” Leaders who make hard decisions will not always be popular. Some will criticize, some will despise, but true leadership isn’t about pleasing people.

The Earth is the Lord’s, and the fullness thereof. You are performing for an audience of One. Godly leadership anchors confidence not in your own ability, but in the One who never fails. God-confidence isn’t about how capable we are; it’s about how much we trust the Almighty to equip, guide, and sustain us.

When our leadership rests in Him, we can face challenges, uncertainty, and pressure with steady courage, knowing the ultimate outcome is in His hands. And here’s the remarkable part: others can tell. People sense the calm, unwavering confidence of a leader who rests in God. It inspires trust, instills courage, and draws others to follow — not because of charisma or talent, but because of the One the leader serves.

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 13 of the 3-Point Play.

Leadership Pt. 2 - The Trust of a Leader

#1 Chick-Fil-A

Howard S. Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, built one of America’s most successful fast-food chains. Known not only for outstanding food but for world-class service, Chick-fil-A runs like clockwork. Drive through almost any location, and when you say “thank you,” you hear the response: “My pleasure.”

It is a business anomaly.

It’s not an accident they are so successful. But from the very beginning, Cathy made a decision that startled many in the business world: Chick-fil-A would remain closed every Sunday.

Some thought it was crazy. “You’re throwing away an entire day’s profits—for what? So employees can worship or rest one day a week? That’s business suicide!” Yet it wasn’t. In fact, the very thing critics said would cost the company business became a hallmark of its success. Chick-fil-A is so respected that some jokingly call it “The Lord’s Chicken.” Isn’t that how God works? He takes the faith of a mustard seed and moves a mountain.

In an industry where every day counts and every hour is a potential revenue opportunity, closing one day a week seemed risky—even reckless. Critics warned it could slow growth, hurt profits, and put the company at a competitive disadvantage compared to competitors open seven days a week.

Yet Cathy’s decision wasn’t about money, efficiency, or popularity. It was about principle and faith. He was a devout Christian who believed in honoring the Lord’s Day. He wanted employees to have a day of rest, reflection, and worship—a time to recharge spiritually, mentally, and physically. He famously said:

“We’re not in the business of selling chicken sandwiches. We’re in the business of people — of serving God and serving others.”

When asked why he keeps Chick-fil-A closed on Sundays, Cathy said:

“We want to give our employees a day to worship if they choose, to rest and enjoy family, and to recharge. This is not about business strategy—it’s about our values and faith.”

Cathy understood that true leadership isn’t measured by immediate gains or public approval; it’s measured by integrity, faithfulness, and the willingness to make hard decisions that honor God. By trusting God rather than worldly wisdom, Cathy built an empire—not in spite of this principle, but because of it. Employees respected the culture of care and values; customers admired the consistency and integrity; and the brand became synonymous with ethical, God-centered leadership.

Chick-fil-A’s Sunday closure teaches leaders several timeless lessons:

• Principle over popularity: Leaders who honor God first may face criticism or misunderstanding, but they earn long-term respect and trust.

• Confidence in God, not self: Decisions anchored in faith provide clarity and courage, even when others doubt.

• Influence through consistency: Leadership modeled on values rather than expediency inspires loyalty and creates a lasting culture.

Cathy’s example demonstrates that leadership is not about being liked or achieving every goal on human terms. True leadership often requires courageous, almost radical obedience—making decisions that honor God, even when they defy conventional wisdom. His confidence didn’t come from market trends or human validation; it came from trusting God to guide, bless, and sustain his work. He truly served an audience of One.

Mr. Cathy has long gone to be with the Lord, yet the Chick-fil-A empire marches on, showing that true leadership transcends our lifetime.

“Leadership is not about winning every day. It’s about living and leading in a way that honors God, even when it’s hard, unpopular, or countercultural.”

Chick-fil-A’s ongoing success is a testimony to what happens when leaders trust God above all else. People won’t always understand it. It’s unorthodox, countercultural. But wasn’t Jesus countercultural? Love your enemies, not just your friends. If you want to be first, put yourself last. If anyone asks for your shirt, give him your coat too. These teachings aren’t cultural norms—and neither is Godly leadership today.

This reminds every leader that lasting influence is built on obedience, integrity, and faith—not just talent, charisma, or popularity. Trust in the One who is trustworthy. When your confidence is anchored in Him, pressure loses its power, criticism loses its sting, and impossible challenges become stepping stones. Because when God leads, your courage—and your leadership—can never fail.

#2 Where Does Your Help Come From?

True leadership rests on the understanding of Psalm 121:1–2:

“I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth.”

In Psalm 121:1–2, the word translated as “help” comes from the Hebrew “עֶזְרִי” (ezri), which is derived from the root “עֵזֶר” (ezer). This term conveys more than casual assistance; it carries the sense of strength, protection, and deliverance—a kind of support that comes when we are unable to fully help ourselves. When Scripture says that our help comes from the Lord, it emphasizes that God provides the aid, guidance, and sustaining strength that we cannot generate on our own. He is our mighty helper, offering rescue and empowerment in every challenge. In other words, God doesn’t just lend a hand—He is the source of the strength and protection that enable us to endure and lead faithfully, even when the pressures of life and leadership exceed our own abilities.

When we understand that our help comes from the Lord, it transforms how we lead. God isn’t a distant observer; He is our strength, our protector, and our guide. Leadership rooted in self-reliance is fragile, but leadership anchored in God is steady, courageous, and resilient.

This truth is echoed in Proverbs 3:5–6:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

True confidence as a leader comes not from strategy, talent, or popularity, but from fully trusting God’s guidance. When we acknowledge Him in every decision, He directs our steps, strengthens our hearts, and equips us to face challenges beyond our own capacity. Like Howard S. Cathy, who trusted God rather than conventional business wisdom, leaders who rely on the Lord discover that faithfulness and courage flow naturally, even in the face of criticism, uncertainty, or pressure.

Trusting in Him gives a confidence that can’t be explained—or ignored. Everyone in your organization will notice it. It’s the kind of confidence that behaves as if every battle has already been won—because it has.

Take the story of David and Goliath. David didn’t fear the giant. Goliath was an uncircumcised pagan, which to David meant something profound: no covenant with the living God. To David, that wasn’t a reason to fear—it was a reason to trust. He knew he was not facing the battle alone; he was standing with the God of heaven, and that gave him unshakable courage.

This wasn’t a fair fight—but not for the reason you might think. David wasn’t the underdog. In his eyes, he was the favorite, because he had something Goliath didn’t: the living God on his side. Every swing of the sling, every step toward the giant, flowed from a confidence rooted not in skill, strength, or reputation, but in the Almighty.

David’s story reminds leaders that when we anchor our confidence in God, no challenge is too great, no opposition too intimidating. Leadership built on God-confidence sees opportunities where others see obstacles and moves forward with courage because the battle has already been won in the eyes of God.

Do you lead with the unshakable courage of David? If not, pause and ask yourself why. Is your confidence rooted in your own ability, your strategy, or the approval of others—or is it anchored in the living God, who has already won the battle? Godly leadership isn’t about fearlessly facing challenges on our own; it’s about standing firm because we trust the One who never fails.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• Where is my confidence truly rooted—in myself, in others’ approval, or in God?

• In what areas of my leadership do I feel fear or hesitation, and how might trusting God change that?

• Are there battles I am facing that I am trying to fight alone instead of relying on God’s strength?

• How can I model the unshakable courage of David for those I lead, demonstrating faith over fear?

True leadership is not measured by how many awards you win or how impressive your resume appears to others. It’s about giving confidence to those you influence. It’s about doing your best to become the best you are capable of being. It is measured by the courage, integrity, and trust you display when the stakes are high and the outcome is uncertain. Godly confidence is quiet but powerful—it steadies your heart, guides your decisions, and inspires those around you without a word being spoken. Just like King David and Howard Cathy, when you trust in the living God, you are never facing the fight alone. You lead from a place of victory, even before the battle begins. You will win battles everyone else thought you had no business being in. Whether it’s slaying your Goliath or staying closed on Sunday, what the world calls crazy, God calls obedience.

As a leader, you are called to more than strategy, skill, or popularity. You are called to faithful courage, to make decisions anchored in God, and to serve as a model of trust for those who follow you. The challenge now is simple, yet profound: will you choose to lead with confidence that can’t be shaken, because it comes from the One who never fails?

Where does your help come from? Look no further than the Maker of Heaven and Earth. When your confidence is anchored in Him, every challenge becomes an opportunity, every obstacle a stepping stone, and every battle a stage for God’s power to be revealed. Lead boldly, trust unwaveringly, and step into every moment knowing the victory is already won. The One who fights for you is undefeated.

Thanks for reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Charlie welcomes you to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach at Danville High School. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that Cocomelon, his Papaw and Doh, and his big brother).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Leadership

I am glad that you are back for another week of the 3-Point-Play.

Leadership is the act of influencing and guiding individuals or a group toward a shared goal. You don’t have to be a CEO, Principal, Head Coach, Pastor, or Supervisor to be a leader. You could be a mom, a dad, a Sunday school member, a basketball teammate, a brother, a sister, a teacher, a plant employee, or a college student. Anyone who shares the responsibility of influencing or guiding others in any way is demonstrating leadership.

So think about your life—is there anyone you’re influencing?

If the answer to that question is yes, then you are a leader. Leadership is a concept that applies to everyone. Everyone can relate to it — because everyone is both led by someone and has the opportunity to influence someone. I’m sure you can think of a terrific leader you’ve had at some point… and maybe one who wasn’t so great.

What characteristics make one person a great leader and another less effective? That’s what the next 3 episodes with tackle. Together, we’ll take a deep dive into what truly makes a leader.

There are certain characteristics most leaders share: driven, organized, good communicator, motivator, and so on. But that’s not our focus here. We’re talking about biblical principles — the moral traits someone must possess to lead well. Whether you’re leading a family, a business, a church, or even a country, these traits are essential.

I believe biblical leadership can be broken down into three core characteristics: Character, Trust, and Attitude.

Today, we’ll begin with the first moral trait: Character.

A true biblical leader must possess strong character. It’s not optional — it’s the prerequisite, the price of admission for anyone called to lead.

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 12 of the 3-Point Play.

Leadership Pt. 1 - The Character of a Leader

#1 The Wizard of Westwood

Before John Wooden became known as the “Wizard of Westwood” and led UCLA to 10 national championships, he was already revered for something far more enduring than titles or wins — his character. Wooden believed that true leadership was not measured by fame, accolades, or even victories, but by integrity, humility, and the consistent practice of doing what is right.

Many coaches and leaders today still use something Wooden created. His pyramid of success (Pictured below).

The Pyramid of Success is a visual and conceptual guide to achieving true success, which Wooden defined not by wins or trophies but by peace of mind and self-satisfaction from knowing you did your best.

It’s a triangle with five levels, starting from foundational traits and building up toward the pinnacle, which Wooden called “Competitive Greatness.” The bottom layers are about character and preparation, while the top layers are about performance and achieving goals.

One of the most remarkable aspects of John Wooden’s Pyramid of Success is its foundation. Unlike what many might assume, the base of the pyramid isn’t filled with skills, plays, or strategies to win games. Instead, it’s filled with qualities that have nothing to do with winning and everything to do with being a great teammate: industriousness, friendship, loyalty, cooperation, and enthusiasm.

In this way, Wooden was decades ahead of his time. He understood a truth that many leaders are just now discovering: success begins with character.

He framed it with a concept he lived by — what some now call CPR:

• C – Character

• P – Process

• R – Result

Wooden understood that results are a byproduct, not the ultimate goal. To achieve a meaningful result, you must first buy into the process — the daily habits, discipline, and teamwork that lead to excellence. But to truly embrace the process, it takes character — the moral strength, humility, and integrity to do what’s right when no one is watching.

In Wooden’s philosophy:

• Focus on character, and you will have the foundation to handle every challenge.

• Commit to the process, and results will follow.

• Obsessing over results first often leads to shortcuts, compromised values, and a lack of lasting impact.

This simple CPR framework shows why Wooden’s leadership extended far beyond basketball. It’s a timeless lesson for anyone seeking to lead effectively: build character first, embrace the process faithfully, and the right results will come.

Leadership that lasts isn’t about trophies — it’s about integrity, daily discipline, and commitment to the process that builds others up along the way.

Each year, before the first practice, Coach Wooden would gather his players to teach them something seemingly trivial: how to properly put on their socks and tie their shoes. At first, new players thought it was unnecessary or even silly. But Wooden used this moment to teach a deeper truth: small, disciplined actions reveal the true nature of a person’s character. He often said, “It’s the little details that are vital. Little things make big things happen.”

For Wooden, character wasn’t just about small habits — it was about a consistent way of living. He never cursed, never belittled players, and never compromised his values, even in the most intense moments. He led quietly, yet his influence was profound. Every decision, every word, every interaction reflected moral consistency, patience, and care for those he led. High character and morality was more important to Wooden than any result could ever be.

Wooden once said, “Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.”

He was more concerned with who his players became as human beings than he was with how many games they won. His focus on building men of integrity left a legacy that extended far beyond the basketball court. His life demonstrates that true leadership is rooted in character, not accolades.

Character, for Wooden, meant:

• Integrity in every decision — doing the right thing even when it’s inconvenient or unnoticed.

• Humility in every success — giving credit to others and avoiding pride.

• Faithfulness in every responsibility — showing care and respect consistently.

When asked late in life what defined his success, Wooden said: “Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.”

Wooden’s story reminds us that character is the foundation of leadership. Titles, trophies, and reputation fade, but a leader of integrity leaves a legacy that endures.

#2 Scripture

What does the bible say about leadership? Much.

Leadership in God’s eyes begins not with position, accolades, or skill, but with the heart. If you in leadership for personal glory, God will not honor that. As Scripture reminds us, “The Lord looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). A leader’s internal character sets the tone for every decision, action, and influence over others. The way one Shepard's those in your care says way more about you as a leader than what you accomplish. We live in society that says take care of yourself first, but with a leader you must take care of yourself last, but I’m getting ahead of myself.

David exemplified this principle: “With upright heart he (David) shepherded them and guided them with his skillful hand.” (Psalm 78:72). His leadership wasn’t simply about strategy or power, after all he was a man after God’s own heart. Similarly, Proverbs declares, “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the crookedness of the treacherous destroys them.” (Proverbs 11:3)

God’s Word consistently emphasizes that leadership must be rooted in righteousness, character and integrity. “It is an abomination for kings to commit wickedness, for a throne is established through righteousness” (Proverbs 16:12), and “When the righteous increase, the people rejoice; when the wicked rule, the people groan” (Proverbs 29:2). Leadership that prioritizes personal gain or power may achieve temporary success, but only character-led leadership brings lasting blessing to those under one’s care. Pride always comes before the fall. Pursuing leadership only for our personal gain, is doomed from the start. God doesn’t always call the qualified, but he does qualify the called. The state and nature of our intentions for leadership says far more about our own heart than does our accomplishments.

A leader’s integrity protects not only themselves but also those they guide: “May integrity and uprightness protect me, because my hope, Lord, is in you” (Psalm 25:21). Paul expands this principle in the New Testament, urging leaders to practice humility and selflessness: “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:3-4)

For those God has blessed with a position of influence or leadership, Scripture provides clear standards: “For an overseer, as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.”(Titus 1:7–9) and must be “above reproach, faithful… temperate, self-controlled, respectable… able to manage his own family well” (1 Timothy 3:2–7). Accountability, consistency, and moral discipline are essential for leaders who influence others for God’s glory.

Finally, leadership carries weighty responsibility: “Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness.” (James 3:1). So for those of you considering leadership, count the cost. You will give an account one day to a almighty creator. What did you do with what you were given? Did you steward it well? True leaders understand that their influence is not trivial; every word, decision, and example impacts others’ faith, character, growth and livelihood.

Leading with integrity requires a heart aligned with God’s principles, a life guided by humility and service, and unwavering moral character. Leaders of integrity don’t merely manage or command. They lead, guide, influence, and inspire through example, knowing that the health of those they lead depends on the condition of their own hearts.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• When others look to me for guidance or influence, what do they see more clearly — my abilities or my heart?

• Am I leading for God’s glory or my own recognition? What evidence in my life supports that answer?

• How am I demonstrating integrity and humility in the small, unseen moments of daily life?

• In what ways am I investing in the process — the daily discipline and faithfulness — rather than focusing only on results?

• Do my actions, words, and decisions reflect the kind of leader who builds others up and points them toward Christ?

Still want to be a leader? Are you sure?

The truth is, Godly leadership is costly. It will demand humility when pride feels easier. It will require faithfulness when no one notices your effort. It will call for forgiveness, patience, and wisdom when frustration tempts you to give up. It means putting others first when the world tells you to chase comfort and ambition. And it means surrendering your plans to God’s purpose, trusting Him to direct your steps.

But the reward? Eternal. Jesus Himself said, “Whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave—just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” (Matthew 20:26–28).

True leadership begins and ends with the heart, integrity, and character. These are the foundations of every great leader—one not consumed with winning or personal success, but committed to being a faithful shepherd to those in their care. If your desire to lead flows from a heart aligned with God’s, then yes—still be a leader. But lead as Christ did—with love, humility, and unwavering integrity—so that when others follow you, they are ultimately following Him.

Thanks for reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Charlie welcomes you to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach at Danville High School. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that Cocomelon, his Papaw and Doh, and his big brother).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Welcome Back!!!

I am glad that you are back for another week of the 3-Point-Play.

Resiliency. It’s a word you hear a lot in sports. Teams need to be resilient. Athletes need to be resilient. But what does it really mean, and why is it just as important for Christians as it is for athletes? Resiliency isn’t just about enduring hardship—it’s about growing through it. It’s about facing challenges, learning from them, and coming out stronger on the other side.

Nick Saban tells a story about installing hurricane-resistant windows in his home in Florida. Curious about their strength, he asked the installer, “How do you know these windows are better than the others?” The answer was simple: what does it take to break them? The stronger the window, the higher the wind speeds it can withstand, the more debris it can endure, and the more valuable it becomes. A window that can survive a hurricane is a window that has been designed, tested, and strengthened to perform when it matters most.

Our lives work the same way. The storms we face—loss, failure, heartbreak, and setbacks—test our character and faith. Each challenge is an opportunity to develop endurance, strengthen our resolve, and grow in resilience. Just as a hurricane-proof window proves its worth in the storm, our faith and character are revealed in the fire of trials. The more we endure with trust in God, the stronger, more steadfast, and more valuable we become—not just to ourselves, but as witnesses of God’s work in our lives.

Resiliency is what allows athletes to push through the fourth quarter, teams to bounce back from defeat, and believers to keep trusting God when the outcome seems impossible. It’s not about avoiding the storm; it’s about standing firm, leaning on God, and letting Him refine us into something unbreakable.

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 11 of the 3-Point Play.

Unbreakable

#1 Louis Zamperini - the unbreakable man

Louis Zamperini seemed, at first glance, like a typical American success story. Born in 1917 in Olean, New York, to Italian immigrant parents, he grew up full of energy and mischief—often getting into trouble, running, and stealing. But his older brother Pete saw potential and encouraged him to channel that energy into running. What started as a way to stay out of trouble quickly revealed a remarkable talent. By his teenage years, Louis was breaking state records and had earned a spot on the 1936 U.S. Olympic team in Berlin. At just 19, he competed in the 5,000 meters, finishing eighth—but it was his final lap that captured the world’s attention. That lap, an Olympic record at the time, showcased not just speed but courage and perseverance, even impressing Adolf Hitler himself. For Louis, this was only the beginning of a life defined by an unbreakable human spirit.

When World War II broke out, Louis joined the U.S. Army Air Corps as a bombardier. In 1943, during a search mission, his B-24 bomber crashed into the Pacific Ocean. Against all odds, he survived 47 days adrift at sea, battling hunger, thirst, scorching sun, and even shark attacks. But survival was only the beginning of his test. His rescuers? The Japanese Navy. His fate? Becoming a prisoner of war. For over two years, he endured brutal treatment—starvation, beatings, and constant humiliation. Yet through it all, Louis refused to surrender to bitterness or despair. His unyielding determination and steadfast hope carried him through suffering that most could scarcely imagine.

When the war finally ended, Louis was freed and returned home—but his struggles were far from over. He wrestled with anger, nightmares, and the heavy weight of post-traumatic stress. Everything changed in 1949 when he attended a Billy Graham crusade. Through Jesus Christ, he discovered forgiveness—not only for his captors, but also for himself—and a renewed purpose for his life. Louis dedicated himself to helping others, sharing his story, and showing how faith can transform even the deepest wounds into a powerful testimony of hope, perseverance, and resilience. He became, quite simply, the unbreakable man. Crash landings, 47 days at sea, Japanese capture and torture, and post-war trauma could not stop him. His resilient spirit, strengthened by faith and forgiveness in Jesus, carried him through every trial.

Louis Zamperini’s life shows us that trials are not meant to break us, but to build perseverance and resilience. Every hardship, setback, and moment of fear can become an opportunity to trust God, strengthen our faith, and grow in character. His story demonstrates that true resilience is more than mere endurance—it is the courage to rise again, to forgive, and to keep moving forward, no matter the obstacles. So remarkable was his journey that it became the inspiration for the 2014 film Unbroken. Louis’s life teaches us a powerful lesson: with faith and perseverance, we too can become unbreakable.

#2 James 1:2-4 (ESV)

“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

The Greek word for “various” in James 1:2 is poikílos—the same root from which we get the word “polka dot.” Let that paint you a word picture: polka dots come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. That’s exactly how our trials come—they are all different. No two are alike, and no two teach us exactly the same lesson. One trial may be losing a job, another the loss of a loved one. Yet each trial carries a lesson if we are willing to learn. As Romans 8:28 reminds us, God works all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

Now, I’m not going to tell you to put on a happy face just because you’re facing cancer, grief, or heartbreak. No one wants to hear the platitude, “It’s all going to be okay; God has a plan,” in the middle of a storm. Sometimes the best thing we can offer is simply, “I’m praying for you,” and be present.

But here’s the truth: even when we can’t see it, God is at work in our storms. To become unbreakable—no matter what the world or Satan throws at us—we must understand that trials, when handled the right way, can make us bigger, faster, stronger, and more resilient. Those scars we carry? They tell a story. And that story shapes our character, our faith, and our very constitution.

The only way metal can be shaped is by intense heat. Once it’s super heated, it becomes pliable, able to be molded like clay. Steel can become stellar, iron can become invincible, and copper can be carefully crafted. Left out of the forge, it remains just a dull, lifeless piece of metal. But placed in the fire—tested, pressed, and shaped—it transforms into something extraordinary.

Trials, like the forge, bring out the strength, beauty, and resilience within us. James knew this. Just as raw metal must endure fire to become strong and useful, our faith must endure challenges to grow deep and unshakable. Life’s difficulties—loss, disappointment, illness, or setbacks—may feel overwhelming in the moment, but God can use them to shape our character, strengthen our spirit, and refine our faith. In every trial, there is an opportunity to become more steadfast, more compassionate, and more like Christ, proving that even in the hardest circumstances, God is there. Walking with us, guiding us, and giving us the strength to persevere. Though we may not understand the purpose of the fire in the moment, we can trust that God is molding us into vessels of greater faith, resilience, and hope—ready to shine for His glory when the trial is past.

We are not shielded from these hardships as believers. In fact, Jesus promised that we would endure hardships and trials because of Him, not in spite of Him. These trials are not signs of God’s absence or failure; rather, they are opportunities to grow closer to Him, to strengthen our faith, and to reflect His character in the world. Jesus Himself warned His disciples, saying, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). Just as a blacksmith places metal in the fire to forge strength and resilience, God allows challenges in our lives to shape us into people who can withstand pressure, persevere through adversity, and shine His light even in the darkest moments. Hardship refines our faith, builds perseverance, and prepares us for the purposes He has called us to.

Like Louis Zamperini, these trials can make our faith: UNBREAKABLE.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• James 1:2 encourages joy in trials. How can I reframe difficult situations in my own life as opportunities to grow in faith?

• What habits or practices can help me develop perseverance when life feels overwhelming?

• How does my faith help me face challenges that seem impossible or unfair?

• What can I learn from examples of resilience—like Louis Zamperini or others in my life—that inspires me to keep going?

• Are there areas in my life where unforgiveness or bitterness is holding me back from moving forward?

• How might God be using my current struggles to shape my character or prepare me for a greater purpose?

Scars. Struggles. Setbacks. Trials are not failures—they’re fuel. Let God refine you, let faith shape you, and watch as your trial turns into triumph. Unbreakable isn’t just a word. It’s your story waiting to be written.

Thanks for reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Charlie welcomes you to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

We’re Back!!!

It is good to be back

Heather and I have experienced a lot of life changes since our last episode. Like anyone, I let life get in the way, so please accept my apologies for my temporary sabbatical.

Some updates for us: we sold our house, closed on a new home, moved to Decatur, AL, started school for me and Wilson, and visited the beach with Charlie for the first time. The move has been wonderful for our family. The boys are loving the “new house,” as Wilson calls it. Charlie now has his own bedroom upstairs—no more office sharing—and they have a huge playroom to keep all of their toys.

My commute to Danville High has been reduced from 45 minutes each way to just 20 minutes, which has been a huge improvement. We’re also closer to my parents, which makes it easier for Heather to take Charlie Boy to Susu’s house. Wilson has started Pre-K, and he is thrilled about “my school.” On top of that, we’re only 10 minutes from both church and Susu’s, which makes life much more convenient for all of us.

All in all, our journey of selling, buying, and moving is one I’ve looked forward to sharing. It has been a season that tested our perseverance, patience, and trust in God. Yet through every challenge, His faithfulness has been unwavering, guiding us to exactly where we were meant to be.

Life is full of seasons of change—whether it’s the joy of welcoming a new baby, the bittersweet milestone of a child leaving for college, the grief of losing a loved one, or the simple reality of growing older. In every transition, God remains constant. He walks with us, strengthens us, and uses each season to shape us for His purposes. As we embrace the changes around us, we can take comfort in knowing that He is working all things together for the good of those who love Him according to His purpose (Romans 8:28).

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 10 of the 3-Point Play.

God Always Makes a Way

#1 Real Estate Purgatory

When we first listed our house on the market, it was July 2024. We thought, “If we are out by Thanksgiving, we’ll be happy.” Boy were we wrong about the length of time we would be in that season.

We were on the market for over a year, and some days it truly felt hopeless. Every deal seemed to fall through at the last moment, leaving us disappointed and frustrated. We had plenty of showings, some lead us to believe offers were on their way but alas no offers came. Each passing week made it feel like we were stuck in a never-ending cycle. It was stressful, exhausting, and, at times, downright discouraging—as if we were trapped in a kind of real estate purgatory with no exit.

The uncertainty weighed heavily on both of us. I could feel my stress mounting with every setback, my mind racing with “what ifs” and “if onlys.” Heather carried her own worries, quietly wrestling with doubts and fears about whether we would ever find stability again. My 45-minute commute left the burden on Heather to transport the kids to and from daycare. Sundays were an all-day affair just to get to church. During basketball season, I left before the kids were awake and came home after they were already asleep. We were both frustrated, exhausted, and emotionally drained.

Beyond the practical challenges, there were moments when we struggled spiritually as well. We kept asking, “God, where are You in this?” “Why does this feel so hard?” “Did I make the wrong decision choosing this new job?” and “Will we ever sell our home and get moved?” With school rapidly approaching, the pressure was beginning to mount if we would have to do it all over again.

It was a season that tested our patience, perseverance, and faith. Yet, even in the midst of frustration and discouragement, there were tiny reminders of His presence—small moments of encouragement, glimpses of hope, and the constant reminder that He sees the bigger picture even when we cannot. God is outside of time and weighs His decisions against eternity, while we weigh ours against the moment we are currently in and how we currently feel.

Looking back, those months of waiting and uncertainty felt like a wilderness, a place where it was hard to see the path forward. I felt like Abraham; God was leading us somewhere else, I just didn’t have a clue where. Being the leader of our home, I felt responsible for what I was putting our family through. After all, it was I who chose to take this new job, uproot our family, and move us across the Tennessee River. Even in the stress and setbacks, God was quietly at work, preparing us for what was to come, shaping our hearts, and teaching us lessons we wouldn’t have learned any other way. It was His perfect plan that led us to our new home, new schedule, and our new normal.

#2 Isaiah 43:19

“Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.”

This verse is a vivid reminder that God is always at work, even when our lives feel dry, uncertain, or overwhelming. Sometimes, we find ourselves in situations that feel like our own wilderness. It can feel lonely, discouraging, or even hopeless. But God promises that even in these difficult seasons, He is doing something new.

Check out the imagery Isaiah uses: “a way in the wilderness” and “rivers in the desert.” A wilderness is a place of confusion, hardship, or uncertainty—where it seems like progress is impossible. God provides a way. And a desert is dry, barren, and lifeless, seemingly without hope. God gives us a river. He creates paths where we thought there were none and brings life-giving refreshment where we expected nothing but dryness.

The verse challenges us to find what God is doing, where He is moving, and to follow Him there. Often, we are so focused on the difficulties in front of us that we fail to notice the small, quiet ways He is working. God’s “new thing” may come as unexpected opportunities, moments of clarity, encouragement from others, or a deepened trust in Him. Even when the timing doesn’t match ours, His plan is perfect, and His work is intentional.

This passage reminds us to stay alert and attentive, to look for God’s movement in our lives, and to trust that He can transform any wilderness or desert into a place of growth, hope, and renewal. There is a picture of this in the New Testament after Jesus’ crucifixion. The disciples lost hope; Jesus was dead—even though He told them He’d return. They were focused on their sorrow, and God was busy making a way. He’s made a way for us too. Sin has separated us from Him, but He’s made a way back through Jesus. His death, burial, and resurrection is that “river in the desert” for all mankind. God loves you—sin has separated you from Him, and the cross is your way back. Will you accept Him? Will you set aside your own sorrow and recognize what God has done for you through Jesus? I hope that today you will.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

Reflection Questions:

1. What current “wilderness” or challenge in your life might God be using to do something new?

2. How can you begin to notice the small ways God is at work even when it doesn’t feel significant?

3. Are there areas of your life where fear, doubt, or frustration are keeping you from perceiving God’s new thing?

4. In what ways has God already brought streams of hope or guidance in past difficult seasons?

5. How can you submit to God in this season rather than passively waiting for change?

6. Who in your life might need encouragement that God is making a way in their wilderness, and how can you be that “stream” for them?

Life is full of seasons of change, challenge, and uncertainty. At times, it can feel as though we are wandering in a wilderness with no clear direction, much like we did during our family’s move or like many of the struggles we face in everyday life. But Isaiah reminds us that even in the dry, uncertain, and stressful moments, God is at work—doing something new, creating streams in our personal wastelands, and making a way where it seems impossible.

The key is learning to trust God’s plan. Nothing that happens in our lives is by chance or unseen. Adrian Rogers once said, “Has it ever occurred to you that nothing ever occurs to God?” While He doesn’t cause all things to happen, He does allow them to happen. He takes rubble and turns it into rubies, He changes our pain for His purpose, and He transforms our deepest fears into strengthened faith. He works all things for the good of those who love Him, according to His purpose.

By focusing on God’s faithfulness rather than what we cannot control, we can develop resilience and peace that passes all understanding. Jon Gordon, author of The Energy Bus, often talks about gratitude. He says, “You can’t be stressed and thankful at the same time, because gratitude and stress activate different parts of the brain and are physiologically impossible to hold simultaneously.” He encourages gratitude walks—walking for five minutes and listing all the things God has done in your life and things you are thankful for. I encourage you to explore some of his books; they can shift your perspective on your current situation.

God’s “Rivers in the Desert” are often not just for our benefit—they are also opportunities for us to encourage others. When we recognize God’s faithfulness in our lives, we can help others see His work, offer hope, and share our testimony of His goodness.

Practical Steps for Living in God’s New Thing:

• Choose to thank God daily.

• Pay attention to the small blessings that reveal His presence.

• Let go of fear or frustration that tries to dominate your thoughts.

• Actively seek ways to encourage someone else who may feel stuck in their own “wasteland.”

• Journal or reflect on past seasons where God’s faithfulness became clear.

Life will always bring seasons of uncertainty, waiting, and change, but none of them are wasted in God’s hands. He is working in ways we cannot yet see, preparing paths that lead to His purpose and provision. Our responsibility is to stay faithful, keep our eyes open to His movement, and trust His timing. No matter how dry the desert or how endless the wilderness may feel, God is already making a way—our part is to trust Him enough to walk in it.

Thanks for reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Welcome Back!!!

Have you ever failed at something?

I mean really failed.

Been cut from a team. Gotten fired from a job. Severely damaged a relationship.
Not just a small mistake or a minor slip-up.
I’m talking about a moment so miserable, so disappointing, so public or personal that it left you stunned, embarrassed, even ashamed.

Maybe it was something you said, or something you didn’t say when it mattered most.
Maybe it was a decision you made in the heat of the moment.
Maybe it was a moment when you had the chance to stand up for your faith, your friend, or your family — but instead, you stayed quiet.
Maybe it was a season of your life when you drifted so far that you wondered if God could ever use someone like you again.

Failure has a way of sticking to us. It echoes. It haunts us. It makes us question our worth. And worst of all, it can make us believe the lie that we’re disqualified from God’s purpose.

We’ve all been there in one form or another, moments when we feel like we've let someone down, missed our chance, or canceled whatever blessing God had in store for us. The weight of failure can be suffocating, leaving us convinced that we’ve ruined our future or disqualified ourselves from God's plan.

But there's a story in the Gospel of Luke that reminds us otherwise.

Simon, the disciple Jesus renamed “Cephas” or Peter, knew what it meant to fail. He wasn’t just any follower—he was part of Jesus’ inner circle.

Peter failed publicly, personally and profoundly. His failure, as great as it was, wasn’t the end of his story.

And your failure is not the end of your story either.

There’s more to your story because the Author hasn’t stopped writing.

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 9 of the 3-Point-Play.

Failure Is Not Fatal

#1 10,000 ways how not to make a lightbulb

Thomas Edison is known as one of the greatest inventors in history — credited with inventions like the phonograph, the motion picture camera, and most famously, the incandescent light bulb. But what most people don’t realize is how many times Edison failed before he succeeded.

When Edison was working on the light bulb, he tried thousands of different materials for the filament. One story says he tested over 10,000 different substances before finding the one that worked. Imagine the frustration: every attempt ending in failure, every experiment proving that his idea wouldn’t work—again and again.

But Edison didn’t see it as failure. He famously said:
"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won’t work."

That mindset—that refusal to see failure as final—made all the difference. While others might have quit, Edison kept going, believing that each “failed” attempt was a necessary step toward success. His persistence eventually brought light not just into his workshop but into homes and cities around the world.

Edison’s story is a powerful example of perseverance. He didn’t let setbacks define him or stop him. Instead, he learned from them, adapted, and kept moving forward. It’s a reminder that failure isn’t the opposite of success—it’s often part of the journey to success.

Winston Churchill once said,

“Success is moving from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm”

Failure is a part of life—a part of the journey, a part of growing, and a part of becoming the person God has ordained and called us to be. It’s easy for failure to discourage us and to feel like the end of the road. But failure is not the final destination; it’s simply just another stop along the way.

Imagine if any of these people had stopped after failure:

• Abraham Lincoln — Lost multiple elections before becoming president.

• Walt Disney — Fired from a newspaper for “lacking imagination.”

• Michael Jordan — Cut from his high school basketball team.

• J.K. Rowling — Rejected by numerous publishers before Harry Potter was accepted.

• Oprah Winfrey — Fired from a TV job early in her career.

• Albert Einstein — Didn’t speak fluently until age 4 and was thought to have learning disabilities.

• Steve Jobs — Fired from Apple, the company he co-founded.

• Elvis Presley — Told he had no future in music.

• The Beatles — Rejected by multiple record labels early on.

Without these people’s perseverance, the world would have missed out on their greatness. These people had the humility to carry on, get up off the turf, and keep moving forward.

Walt Disney once famously said,

“We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.”

One failure doesn’t define you. Just ask Peter—he didn’t fail once or twice, but three times. Jesus restored him. He’ll restore you too.

#2 Peter’s Story

54 Then they seized him and led him away, bringing him into the high priest’s house, and Peter was following at a distance. 55 And when they had kindled a fire in the middle of the courtyard and sat down together, Peter sat down among them. 56 Then a servant girl, seeing him as he sat in the light and looking closely at him, said, “This man also was with him.” 57 But he denied it, saying, “Woman, I do not know him.” 58 And a little later someone else saw him and said, “You also are one of them.” But Peter said, “Man, I am not.” 59 And after an interval of about an hour still another insisted, saying, “Certainly this man also was with him, for he too is a Galilean.” 60 But Peter said, “Man, I do not know what you are talking about.” And immediately, while he was still speaking, the rooster crowed. 61 And the Lord turned and looked at Peter. And Peter remembered the saying of the Lord, how he had said to him, “Before the rooster crows today, you will deny me three times.” 62 And he went out and wept bitterly.

- Luke 22:54-62

Even after Jesus warned him that he would fail, Peter did it anyway. He denied Jesus—not once, not twice, but three times. This was deeply humiliating for Peter. Just think about it: every Christian, every person who hears the story of Jesus’ crucifixion, also hears about Peter’s failure. His denial. His colossal mistake.

Peter’s failure wasn’t hidden or minor; it was public and painful. Yet, his story doesn’t end there. It reminds us that failure—even the kind that feels devastating—is not the final word for those who trust in Christ.

15 When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter,
“Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?”
He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.”
He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” 16 He said to him a second time,
“Simon, son of John, do you love me?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Tend my sheep.” 17 He said to him the third time, “Simon, son of John, do you love me?” Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, “Do you love me?” and he said to him, “Lord, you know everything;
you know that I love you.” Jesus said to him, “Feed my sheep."

- John 21:15-17

In John, we see Peter’s restoration. The risen Jesus asking him 3 times, “Do you Love me?” Do you see the irony? 3 denials. 3 questions. 3 commands.

Feed my lambs.

Tend my sheep.

Feed my sheep.

3 Denials + 3 Questions = 1 Restoration.

Jesus redeems Peter. He didn’t give up on him. He had big plans for him. He would become the rock that Jesus builds the church as we know it today.

He won’t give up on you either.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• How does Peter’s restoration encourage you when you think about your own failures?

• What does Jesus’ repeated question, “Do you love me?” teach you about God’s grace and patience?

• In what ways might God be calling you to “feed His sheep” or serve others, despite past mistakes?

• How can you respond to God’s restoration in your life by stepping into the purpose He has for you?

• Do you find it difficult to forgive yourself after failure? How does Peter’s story help you with that struggle?

• What steps can you take today to follow Jesus more faithfully, even when you feel unworthy?

Before Jesus can restore your failures, he must redeem your soul. Do you know him? No matter how bad you’ve been, no matter what you’ve done, no matter the failures you’ve endured nothing is too far gone for Jesus.

"For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God."

- 2 Corinthians 5:21

God still has a plan for your life. Despite all your failures, all your shortcomings, the humiliation, the regret, the shame, Jesus is your way to redemption.

Remember that Failure is never fatal. We must have the courage to continue. The courage to look Jesus in the face and say Lord, you know everything; you know that I love you, just as Peter did.

John Newton, the man who wrote the beloved hymn “Amazing Grace,” had a past marked by failure and brokenness. He was involved in the slave trade and lived a life far from God. Yet, despite his past, God transformed Newton’s heart. His story is a powerful reminder that no failure or sin is too great for God’s redeeming love.

Like Peter, who denied Jesus but was lovingly restored, Newton’s life shows us that failure is never the final chapter. God’s grace can reach anyone, and His restoration brings new purpose and hope.

His first 3 verses read:

Amazing grace! how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch; like me!
I once was lost, but now am found,
Was blind, but now I see.

’Twas grace that taught my heart to fear,
And grace my fears relieved;
How precious did that grace appear
The hour I first believed!

The Lord hath promised good to me,
His word my hope secures;
He will my shield and portion be
As long as life endures.

As long as life endures, Jesus will restore you. Don’t give up. Failures don’t define us, but our faith in Jesus will deliver us.

Thanks for Reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth

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I’m so glad you’ve joined me again for another devotional. It’s late May here in Alabama—and you know what that means: graduation season.

Caps are flying, cameras are flashing, families are hooping and hollering even after they’ve been asked to hold their applause. For many, a chapter is closing while a brand-new one begins.

This devotional is all about graduation—but not just the kind that comes with a diploma. Because let’s be real: we’re all graduating from something.

Some of us are walking across a stage with a high school or college degree in hand.
Some of us are stepping into a brand-new job—or saying goodbye to one.
Some of us are entering parenthood for the first time.
Some are adjusting to an empty nest.
And some are stepping into the uncharted territory of retirement.

Webster’s Dictionary puts it like this:

Graduate - to pass from one stage of experience, proficiency, or prestige to a usually higher one.

That’s powerful. Graduation isn’t just about school—it’s about growth. It’s the movement from where you were to where God is calling you next.

So today, whether you’re tossing a cap, packing a box, starting something new, or letting something go—you’re graduating.

The question is: Are you ready for what God has next?

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 8 of the 3-Point-Play.

To Everything There is a Season

#1 Graduation

Do you remember your high school graduation? The last time to be with people that you spent 13 years. For some, it was electric—caps flying, families cheering, and the thrill of freedom in the air. You couldn’t wait to get started on the next thing: college, career, or just not having to wake up at 7:00 AM anymore.

For others, it was bittersweet. Maybe it meant saying goodbye to close friends, leaving behind a comfortable routine, or facing the uncertainty of the future. The security of the familiar was slipping away, and the next chapter felt a little blurry.

But whether it was joyful or tearful, or maybe a mix of both, graduation marked a shift. Something anew. A change. It was the end of something, but also the beginning of something else. For some, you were walking away from a place where you were the “Big Man” on campus. For others, you couldn’t run away from that place fast enough. Some were very involved in clubs, sports, band, and many other extra curriculars. Others, went to school because the government said they had to. They weren’t going to be caught in those halls any longer.

It has been 20 years since I walked the halls of West Morgan High School. I was very lucky that my high school experience was a positive one. I played multiple sports, was involved in multiple clubs, made good grades and made many great friends. Some of which I see on a regular basis today.

But whether you loved high school or hated it, graduation brings a stark reality to our lives, it’s full of change. As high school students we really can’t see past the next ball game, test, or club meeting. However the reality is that those things come and go just as fast as they came.

The same is true about about life—it’s always changing. And it’s fragile, brief and fleeting. The Hebrew word Hebel, is the word used by the writer of Ecclesiastes that is translated as vanity in many of our translations today. It is directly translated as, breath or mist. So don’t think meaningless when you see vanity in Ecclesiastes, think short, temporary, momentary.

We’re always graduating, not necessarily with a cap and gown, but we’re constantly being moved from one stage to another. Some transitions are loud and celebrated. Others are quiet and painful. But every single one is part of a bigger story—a season God has written for us.

The beautiful thing about Scripture is that, while it may look like a collection of random books, it reads like a single story.

It was written by roughly 40 different human authors—over the course of about 1,500 years, in three different languages, across multiple continents, by people of wildly different walks of life. Shepherds and kings, prophets and fishermen, tax collectors and tentmakers. Some wrote in palaces, others in prisons or deserts.

Your life, also reads like a single story. Every event, every season, every triumph, every failure, leads you to where you currently are. Your story has chapters, and the chapter you are currently in, isn’t the conclusion. Both good and bad. So if you are in the midst of a trial, hold on IT WON’T LAST. But if you are in the midst of a great harvest, hold on IT WON’T LAST.

#2 A Time and A Season

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

1 For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: 2 a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; 3 a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4 a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 6 a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; 7 a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; 8 a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace.

This poem in Ecclesiastes reminds us that life moves in seasons.
Some are filled with laughter. Others with loss.
Some are about building. Others are about letting go.

It’s easy to feel like the seasons of life are random—like we’re just floating from one moment to the next. But the truth is: God is the Author of every season. From Genesis to Revelation. From In the Beginning to Amen. Nothing is wasted. And nothing is by accident.

Even when the season feels hard.
Even when it feels quiet.
Even when it’s not the one we would’ve chosen or prayed for.

If you look closely, you’ll see it: Jesus is there—woven into every chapter, every story, and every season of your life.

When you're planting, He’s your foundation.

When you're uprooting, He’s your stability.

When you're building, He’s your cornerstone.

When you're weeping, He’s close to the brokenhearted.

When you're dancing, He’s your joy.

When you're searching, He ALONE is the answer.

Just as Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is a time for everything under Heaven, Scripture reminds us that in every time, Jesus is present.

You may be stepping into a new season right now—graduating, moving, transitioning, or waiting. Whatever it looks like, don’t miss this:

The God who wrote the seasons into the story of the Bible is writing your story, too. And Jesus is there—on every page.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• What season of life are you in right now? Are you in a time of planting, building, waiting, or letting go?

• Do you find it hard to trust God’s timing? Why or why not?

• What is one area where you're tempted to rush ahead—or hold on too long?

• What “season” are you graduating from—and what are you graduating toward?

• Where do you see Jesus showing up in your current season?

• Are there any “stones” you need to cast away—or gather? What do you need to release as you step forward? What do you need to hold onto?

• How can you embrace your current season with faith instead of frustration?

You may have heard the saying, “God will never give you more than you can handle.” But honestly, that’s not true—and it’s actually pretty bad theology.

Think about it—if you could handle every challenge on your own, without needing God, then what would be the point of trusting Him? The truth is, life will often hand you more than you can handle. The question is: Do you trust God enough to carry you through those times?

Winston Churchill once said,

“If you are going through hell, keep on going.”

That’s powerful because tough times don’t last forever—but TOUGH PEOPLE DO. And often, our biggest breakthroughs and deepest joys come after our hardest seasons.

“Charlie Boy” as we affectionately call him, is our rainbow baby. Before Charlie came into our lives, we faced a really painful season of infertility. We went through two miscarriages, and one required surgery. It was heartbreaking, confusing, and heavy.

But on the other side of that pain—after the tears and the waiting—God gave us Charlie Boy. And honestly? We can’t imagine life without him. He is a blessing beyond what we could have ever earned or deserved.

That’s the thing about God: sometimes He lets us walk through the storm—not to leave us there—but to bring us into a greater joy and purpose on the other side.

So if you’re facing something that feels way bigger than you can handle right now, remember: You don’t have to carry it alone. Trust God to carry you. Your greatest victory might just be waiting on the other side of this hard season.

Bethany Hamilton was just 13 years old when a shark attacked her while she was surfing in Hawaii. In a matter of seconds, she lost her left arm, and nearly her life.

For a young teen passionate about surfing, the attack was devastating—not just physically, but emotionally. It could have ended her surfing career and shattered her spirit.

But Bethany refused to let heartbreak define her story.

Through pain, rehab, and an intense struggle with fear and identity, she leaned into her faith in Jesus. Within just one month, she was back on a surfboard. She eventually went on to become a professional surfer, compete at the highest levels, and inspire millions.

In interviews and in her book Soul Surfer, she openly shares that while the loss was traumatic, God gave her a bigger purpose through her pain:

“I’ve had the chance to embrace more people with one arm than I ever could with two.”

Sometimes life takes us down roads that we never see coming. Sometimes the greatest blessings are prayers that he chose to answer no. A very wise person once told me, “When things don’t work out for you, they really do work out for you.”

So, as you stand on the edge of a new season—whether you’re graduating from school, a job, a stage of life, or even a mindset—remember this: life is made up of seasons, and each one is part of God’s perfect plan.

So, as you step forward, carry this truth with you:
Every ending is a new beginning. Every season has a purpose. And every step you take is under God’s loving watch.

Celebrate what you’ve accomplished. Embrace the unknown. And trust that the Author of time and seasons is faithful to lead you into your next chapter.

Thanks for Reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth.

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There’s something powerful about a team that plays as one.

I’ve seen it happen in the fourth quarter of a close game—when the crowd is loud, the clock is ticking down, and fatigue is setting in. The team that wins isn’t always the one with the biggest star. It’s the one where every player knows their role, trusts each other, and sacrifices for the whole.

It’s the point guard making the extra pass.
The big man boxing out so someone else gets the rebound.
The bench bringing energy that lifts everyone on the floor.

That’s what separates a group of individuals from a team—shared purpose, mutual trust, and a commitment to something bigger than yourself.

Helen Keller once said, “Alone we can do so little, but together we can do so much.” That’s more than just a nice quote, it’s a reflection of how our Creator designed us. From the very beginning, He wired us for connection. We weren’t made to do life alone.

If you’ve ever spent a day walking the halls of a high school, you know this is true. Students will talk right up until the bell rings—risking a tardy just to squeeze in one more moment with friends. They’ll work in groups, chat in class, and even procrastinate assignments together. It's not just about avoiding work—it’s about being with people. We’re social creatures. We crave community.

Why do you think social media works so well? It taps into a very real, very God-given desire to connect. And that doesn’t stop with our conversations—it extends to our accomplishments too. We were created to strive, build, and achieve—but not in isolation. We’re at our best when we do it together.

Even so-called “individual” sports like tennis and golf are no longer truly solo missions. Behind every great athlete is a team: nutritionists, strength coaches, mental performance experts, and more. The spotlight might hit one person, but the success is shared. And time after time, it’s the teams that function best together—not necessarily the most talented ones—that achieve greatness.

Paul taps into this same truth in 1 Corinthians 12 when he compares the Church to a body. Different parts. One purpose. Working together.

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 7 of the 3-Point-Play.

One Body, Many Parts

#1 “I’m looking for the right ones.”

One of the greatest sports upsets of all time happened in 1980 in Lake Placid, New York. A team full of college players that comprised the USA Men’s Hockey team beat the unbeatable team, the immovable object, the ultimate Goliath. The Soviet Union team had won the Gold medal in the last 4 olympics. 1964, 1968, 1972, 1976. They didn’t just beat people, they annihilated them. They had not lost an olympic game since the ‘68 olympics. There was no doubt when they skated on the ice, who the best team was.

Herb Brooks was the Coach of the “Miracle on Ice” USA Men’s Hockey team. There is a story that when picking his roster the IOC set aside an entire week of tryouts. Herb handed them his roster on day 1. He didn’t need a week, he just needed a day.

This scene is depicted in the movie “Miracle” with Kurt Russell playing the part of Herb Brooks. Brooks presents his initial roster, full of unpaid college kids, to his assistant coach, Craig Patrick. Patrick takes one look and asks, “What’s this? You’re missing some of the best players.” To which Brooks replies, “I’m not looking for the best players, Craig. I’m looking for the right ones.” Brooks knew that while a team full of all-stars would have more talent, they wouldn’t have more humility. And Brooks needed a TEAM.

How often do we put God in the same box.

How often do we assume God should use only the most “talented,” the most polished, the most impressive people for His work? How often do we count ourselves out—or count others out—because they don’t seem like the “best”?

But Scripture tells a different story.

God doesn’t always pick the flashy. He picks the faithful. He doesn’t need a superstar, he needs a servant. He doesn’t always call the qualified, he qualifies the called. Why? For his glory. And He’s not assembling a team based on stats—He’s building a body, just like Paul describes in 1 Corinthians 12.

What the world calls weakness, God often calls strength. What we overlook, He calls essential. He’s not just looking for the best. He’s looking for the right ones—those who are willing to be used, to play their role, and to serve the body for the good of the team and the glory of Christ.

#2 1 Corinthians 12:12-27

12 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13 For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and all were made to drink of one Spirit. 14 For the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15 If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 16 And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. 17 If the whole body were an eye, where would be the sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of smell? 18 But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. 19 If all were a single member, where would the body be? 20 As it is, there are many parts, yet one body. 21 The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” 22 On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23 and on those parts of the body that we think less honorable we bestow the greater honor, and our unpresentable parts are treated with greater modesty, 24 which our more presentable parts do not require. But God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, 25 that there may be no division in the body, but that the members may have the same care for one another. 26 If one member suffers, all suffer together; if one member is honored, all rejoice together. 27 Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.

Paul lays out a powerful image of what the Church is supposed to be: a body. It’s brilliant in its simplicity. Just like our physical bodies are made up of different parts with different functions—so is the Body of Christ.

The hand isn’t jealous of the foot. The eye doesn’t try to be the ear. The knee doesn’t complain about not being the elbow. That would be chaos. Yet how often do we fall into that trap spiritually?

We compare ourselves to others.
We compete for attention, recognition, or influence.
We think we have to sound like someone else, lead like someone else, serve like someone else—just to matter.

But Paul flips that on its head. He says every part of the body matters, especially the ones we’re tempted to overlook.

Let’s be honest—most of us want to be the visible part of the body. We want the stage, the microphone, the title, or the recognition. But in the Kingdom of God, it’s not about your prestige, it’s about your purpose. All of our purposes is singular: Bring Glory to Christ using whatever gift God has given us.

Not everyone can be the quarterback, but the quarterback is nothing without his lineman. Not everyone can be the star shooter, but the shooter is nothing without his teammates finding him when he is open. Not everyone can be the CEO of the company, but the CEO is nothing without the unsung heroes. The people who play a part no one knows about until they go missing.

Think about your big toe. You probably haven’t thought about it today. But try walking in a straight line without it. Suddenly, what was invisible becomes indispensable. That’s how it works in the Body of Christ too.

Some people will be called to preach to stadiums full of people.
Others will quietly rock babies in the nursery every Sunday.
Some will write books and speak at conferences.
Others will faithfully greet guests at the front door, week after week.

Not everyone is the Apostle Paul, Billy Graham, David Platt, or John Piper—and that’s a good thing. Because the mission of the gospel is far too big to be carried by a few well-known voices. It takes the whole Church, filled with all kinds of people, doing all kinds of things, for the glory of one Savior. And he’s not asking you to do something you’re not gifted for. He just wants your yes on the table.

Whether you're teaching a small group, serving on the tech team, helping with children’s ministry, or praying faithfully behind the scenes—it all matters. The Church thrives when every member plays their part, not out of obligation, but out of worship.

And when we each do what we were made to do—there’s unity, power, and purpose. That’s what the body was made for.

God has given everyone of us who are filled with the holy spirit our own gifts. Use them.

God is the one who arranged the body, on purpose. He honors the unseen. He strengthens the weak. And He expects every member to care for the others. When one part suffers, the whole body feels it. When one part wins, the whole body celebrates.

This is what the Church is meant to be. Not a group of individuals doing their own thing, but a unified team reflecting Christ.

It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you do not care who gets the credit.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• Where do you see yourself in the body of Christ?

• What gifts or roles has God given you? Are you embracing your part or wishing you had someone else’s?

• Have you ever felt like your role in the Church didn’t matter? What made you feel that way? How does this passage challenge that thinking?

• Are there people in your church who quietly serve behind the scenes? How can you show them honor and appreciation this week?

• Do you ever compare your spiritual gifts or service to others’?

• What helps you stay focused on faithfulness instead of recognition?

• Is there a “yes” you’ve been holding back from giving to God? What’s stopping you from stepping into the role He’s calling you to?

When Bill Belichick was the coach for the New England Patriots, there was one sign in the entire building. It read: “Do your job. Work Hard. Be attentive. Put the team first.”

We can learn a lot from this one sign. Do your job. Do your job the way Shakespeare wrote poetry, the way Michelangelo painted the Sistine Chapel, the way Beethoven composed music. Take pride in your job, work hard to do your best to be the best you can be for Christ, pay attention to the small details, and put the team first.

But to Put the team first, you must be on the team. Do you know Christ, have you made him the Lord of your life. If you haven’t today is the day to join that team.

You were never meant to do this alone. God didn’t save you from something just to leave you on your own—He saved you into something. A family. A team. A body.

And in that body, you matter.

You are not important because of who you are, but because of WHOSE you are.

Remember, Jesus isn’t looking for the best people, like Herb Brooks he’s looking for the right ones.

So stop disqualifying yourself.
Stop comparing.
Stop waiting until you feel “important enough.”

Just play your part.
Know your role.
Serve your Savior.

Just do your job.

Thanks for Reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truth

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I appreciate each and every one of you that follow along each week. I pray that each time we open God’s word together that it speaks to you the way it speaks to me.

We live in a world of dualities.

We have an up because there is a down.
There is left because there is right.
We know cold because we’ve felt heat.
We recognize peace because we’ve lived through war.
We understand what it means to have plenty because we’ve walked through famine.

These contrasts define much of how we see and understand the world around us. And this is no accident—it is the design of our Creator. God, in His infinite wisdom, has always operated in the framework of two paths—one leading to life, and the other to death.

Take the Garden of Eden, for example. God placed two trees in the center: the tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (Genesis 2:9). Only one was off-limits. Adam and Eve didn’t sin by accident; they made a choice. They heard God's instruction, weighed it, and deliberately took the path He told them not to. That one decision shattered perfect fellowship with God—and humanity has been paying the price ever since.

Later, Jesus used the same language of duality: two gates. One narrow and difficult—yet leading to life. The other wide and easy—yet leading to destruction (Matthew 7:13–14). It’s a choice that every person must make. And make no mistake: not choosing is, in itself, a choice.

This is where our morality comes into play.

I’ve always found it a bit ironic when atheists speak with confidence about “right” and “wrong.” Where do those categories even come from, if we’re all just accidents of biology? If we’re just evolved animals with no Creator, no soul, and no eternal purpose, then morality has no true grounding. Why help the weak? Why value life? Why pursue justice?

But deep down, we all know: there is a difference between right and wrong. We’re not animals driven solely by instinct. We are the image-bearers of the Most High God—created by Him, for Him, and in His likeness (Genesis 1:26–27).

It is God—El Shaddai (God Almighty), Elohim (Creator God), Yahweh (Covenant keeping God), El Elyon (God Most High)—who defines morality. Not culture. Not the courts. Not the crowd. It is God who gives us a conscience, a moral compass, and a clear invitation to choose the better path.

Lennie Acuff (Head Basketball Coach at Samford University in Birmingham, AL) says, “Do the next right thing.” It is God that gives us the ability to do the next right thing.

With that being said, let’s jump into Episode 6 of the 3-Point-Play.

Doing the Next Right Thing

#1 1988 Summer Olympics Finn Sailing

During the 1988 Summer Olympics in Seoul, Canadian sailor Lawrence Lemieux was competing in the Finn class sailing event. While in the midst of a crucial race, Lemieux noticed that two sailors from Singapore had capsized in a nearby event due to rough waters and were in distress.

Faced with a critical decision—continue racing towards a potential medal or assist fellow competitors in danger—Lemieux chose the latter. He veered off course, rescued the sailors, and waited with them until help arrived. As a result, he finished 22nd in the race.

Though he sacrificed his chance at Olympic glory, Lemieux's act of sportsmanship did not go unnoticed. The International Olympic Committee awarded him the Pierre de Coubertin medal, honoring his selflessness and integrity.

This real-life example underscores the theme of dual paths—personal glory versus moral duty—and aligns seamlessly with scriptures’s focus on making righteous choices.

No one remembers who won the gold medal in those olympics. But they remember Lemieux and his heroic choice. One could argue it is the greatest 22nd place finish in the history of the olympics.

History is funny that way. In the moment, we’re often tempted to sell out for the win—win the race, win the argument, close the deal, be first at all costs. But it’s the people who sacrifice winning in order to do what is right who are remembered not just as champions, but as legends.

Their stories echo far beyond the finish line.

God’s word gives countless commands to guard our choices and to choose righteousness. Choose the narrow gate.

#2 Scripture

“Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.”
—Matthew 7:13–14 (ESV)

“And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve... But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
—Joshua 24:15 (ESV)

“For I have chosen him, that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the Lord by doing righteousness and justice, so that the Lord may bring to Abraham what he has promised him.”
—Genesis 18:19 (ESV)

“I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live, loving the Lord your God, obeying his voice and holding fast to him, for he is your life and length of days...”
—Deuteronomy 30:19-20 (ESV)

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
—Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.”
—Proverbs 14:12 (ESV)

“Who is the man who fears the Lord? Him will he instruct in the way that he should choose.”
—Psalm 25:12 (ESV)

“Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”
—Galatians 6:7-9 (ESV)

Over and over again, God’s word instructs us, commands us to choose the narrow gate. Choose the difficult path. Choose the less popular way. The wide, easy way is tempting. It’s the road that seems to promise immediate rewards, success, and comfort. It’s the road with least resistance. It’s the path that society often pushes us toward—making decisions based on self-interest, popularity, or convenience. But this road, as Jesus warned, leads to destruction. It’s the road that leads us the way of everyone else. As followers of Jesus, WE ARE NOT EVERYONE ELSE.

Then there’s the narrow, hard way. It’s not the path that promises immediate rewards or accolades. It’s a road of sacrifice, of choosing what’s right over what’s easy, of honoring God over pleasing others. This is the way of integrity, of righteousness, and of true life. Though it may be difficult and lonely at times, this path is the one that ultimately leads to eternal life with God.

Oh, if only Eve had learned this lesson before the serpent had led her astray. Oh if Satan’s pride hadn’t kept him from this truth. If only David, could have chosen this path instead of the one that brought destruction on his home. If only Solomon would had followed God instead of all the pagan idols of his gentile wives. If only Jonah had trusted in this truth before he met the belly of a great fish. If only Peter would have understood before he denied Christ. If only WE chose righteousness and the narrow gate instead of our foolishness and the wide gate.

The bible is full of men and women who followed the easy path, the wide path, the wrong path. But there is one man who DID NOT. He chose to follow the narrow path, a path so narrow only one man could walk it. A path so narrow only God himself in the form of man could navigate it. A path so difficult it caused him to sweat drops of blood in anticipation of what was to come. A man who was hated for his narrow path. Spat upon, mocked, teased, beaten, flogged, and nailed to a Roman crucifix. A man whom it pleased the father to crush (Isaiah 53:10). A man who was our guilt offering. A man who chose the narrow path for you and for me. And a man, whose choice to walk that lonely, narrow path leads to our redemption.

Do you know this man? Do you know Jesus? He knows you, and everything you’ve ever done. And he walked that lonely path anyways. For you. For me. For humanity.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• What decision in front of you right now feels like a choice between the easy path and the narrow one?

• When was a time you “won” something the world celebrated—but you knew deep down it wasn’t the right path? What did you learn?

• How does remembering Christ’s obedience on the narrow path help you in your daily walk?

• Where do you see others taking the wide road in our culture? How are you tempted to follow them?

• Who in your life needs to be reminded that doing what is right often matters more than doing what is popular? How can you encourage them this week?

• What’s one area of your life where you need to start “doing the next right thing” today?

• Do you know the man that walked that narrow path on our behalf? If you don’t today can be the day that you meet him.

I don’t know if Robert Frost was a Christian or not.

But I do know: the wide road will always be crowded. It will look safer. It will feel easier. It may even promise success. But it leads to destruction.
The narrow road will cost you something. Maybe everything. But it leads to life—real life, lasting life, eternal life.

Choose the narrow gate.
Choose righteousness.
Choose the road less traveled.

It will make all the difference

Thanks for Reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truths

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Welcome Back!!!

Thank you again for joining me for another week. I’m so glad that you are here. I pray that your week has been filled with blessings.

We live in a world that celebrates self. Everywhere we turn, the message is loud and clear: “Take care of number one.” “Look out for yourself.” “YOLO—You Only Live Once, so make it all about you.” “Do what makes you happy.” “Be who you feel you are.” The world preaches self-exaltation. From social media to the workplace, the spotlight is constantly on climbing higher, shining brighter, and building a platform that centers around one thing—YOU.

Phrases like, “You’ve worked hard, you deserve that promotion,” or “No one else will brag about you, so you better brag about yourself,” are not just common—they’re celebrated. But at their core, these ideas echo the oldest lie ever told. In the Garden of Eden, the serpent whispered to Eve, “For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil” (Genesis 3:5). The root of the Fall was pride—a desire to rise, to be equal with God, to live life on our terms.

So this self idolatry is nothing new. This mindset, dressed up in modern language and self-help slogans, is still satanic in nature. It leads us away from God and into a life consumed by self.

But Jesus was different. He was, and always will be, countercultural. The very Son of God—the king of kings—chose humility over honor, a manger over a mansion, a cross over a crown. The religious leaders of His day despised Him for it. His humility exposed their pride, and it ultimately led to His death.

Yet in His death, He showed us the way to true life. In His humility, He showed us true strength. In His servanthood, He showed us true leadership.

With that being said let’s jump into Episode 5 of the 3-Point-Play.

Self-Less

#1 Others

In 1908, thousands gathered at the Salvation Army International Congress in London, England, to celebrate the worldwide expansion of the Salvation Army and to renew its spiritual and social mission of preaching the Gospel and serving the poor, addicted, homeless, and downtrodden. Salvationists from dozens of nations attended. It was one of the largest religious gatherings of its kind at the time, drawing international press attention. This Congress was to mark one of the last major public appearances of founder and inaugural Salvation General, William Booth, who was aging and increasingly frail. His leadership and passionate preaching were still central to the movement, and he was revered as a spiritual father by Salvationists worldwide. However Booth fell ill and was unable to attend to give his keynote speech. Instead he sent a telegram that contained just one word: Others. That was it? No grand letter? No riveting story to rally the troops to do more?

This one word captured the essence of Booth and the mission of the Salvation Army. Booth’s life was marked by sacrifice, simplicity, and a relentless focus on meeting the needs of those society overlooked. His leadership wasn’t about position—it was about people. He didn’t build his ministry around a personality, but around the mission of serving "the least of these" in Jesus’ name.

True leadership is about serving others. Not serving yourself. In today’s culture, leadership is often mistaken for power, position, and personal gain. Leaders are celebrated for how many people follow them, how far they’ve climbed, or how much influence they wield. But in the Kingdom of God, leadership is flipped upside down. Just like William Booth discovered, it is about others.

#2 Scripture

Philippians 2:3–5

“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus.”

True leadership is not about power, prestige, or personal gain. It's about putting others' needs before your own. As Coach John Wooden once said, “You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you.”

This quote beautifully captures the heart of servant leadership. It’s not just about being kind—it’s about being selfless. A servant leader is someone who willingly places others ahead of themselves, who gives expecting nothing in return. That kind of leadership reflects the very nature of Christ.

Matthew 23:11–12

“The greatest among you shall be your servant. Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”

Jesus turns the world’s values upside down. In our culture, we’re conditioned to chase praise—more recognition, more influence, more followers. Just look at social media: How many likes did I get? How many followers do I have? How many views can I rack up? It's easy to drift into self-exaltation, into a subtle form of idolatry that centers everything around me. I'm not saying social media is inherently evil, but I am saying it's full of conceit. Be careful.

There’s a reason no one posts bad pictures of themselves. We all want to be seen at our best, exalted in the eyes of others. But in God’s eyes, the path to glory begins with humility. Humility isn’t a tactic to get ahead. Think about it. It’s making little of yourself so that much can be made of others. Not exactly the fast track to a promotion. But it is what we are called to as followers of Christ—it’s the way of the cross. God sees what’s done in secret. And He promises to exalt the humble in His timing, not ours.

Then we come to one of the clearest, most compelling pictures of servant leadership in all of Scripture:

John 13:5–8

“Then he poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples' feet and to wipe them with the towel that was wrapped around him. He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, ‘Lord, do you wash my feet?’ Jesus answered him, ‘What I am doing you do not understand now, but afterward you will understand.’ Peter said to him, ‘You shall never wash my feet.’ Jesus answered him, ‘If I do not wash you, you have no share with me.’ Simon Peter said to him, ‘Lord, not my feet only but also my hands and my head!’”

Washing feet was a task reserved for slaves. That’s why Peter protested—he couldn’t bear the thought of his Lord lowering Himself to that level to benefit himself. The Greek word Peter uses for “Lord” is kyrios, meaning “master” or “ruler.” In fact, in the Greek translation of the Hebrew scriptures (the Septuagint), kyrios is used as the divine name of God—Yahweh. So Peter wasn’t confused about who was kneeling in front of him. He knew exactly who Jesus was. And yet, Jesus—the King of Kings—stooped to wash the dirty feet of sinners.

This is the essence of leadership in God’s Kingdom:
To make less of yourself so that much can be made of others. Jesus didn’t just teach servant leadership; He embodied it—perfectly, powerfully, and personally.

Jesus very life story was all about humility. Not born in a palace but in a feeding trough. Not basking in wealth but having the profession of a lowly carpenter. Not living in luxury but having no where to lay his head. Jesus very life screams humility.

And He would go on to do even more than wash disciples feet. He would lay down His very life.

John 15:13

“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.”

Jesus did what none of us could ever repay. And He will never ask us to. His life was the ultimate act of servant leadership—motivated not by applause, but by love.

Jesus paid it all,
All to Him I owe;
Sin had left a crimson stain,
He washed it white as snow.

Let us lead like Him: kneeling before others, making less of ourselves so that much can be made of him.

Just as John the Baptist shares in John 3:30:

“He must increase, but I must decrease.”

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• Whose name am I working to make known—mine or Christ’s?

• When was the last time I served someone who couldn’t give me anything in return?

• Do I see humility as weakness—or as strength modeled by Christ?

• Is my daily life marked more by self-interest or by self-sacrifice?

• What kind of leaders would others say that I am? Why?

C.S. Lewis once said “Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.”

That’s the heartbeat of servant leadership. It’s not about denying your value or downplaying your gifts. It’s about redirecting the spotlight—off of self and onto others, and ultimately onto Christ.

Jesus didn’t come to be served but to serve—and in doing so, He showed us what true greatness looks like. He had nothing to prove, nothing to earn, and no one to impress. He simply loved, lowered Himself, and laid down His life. That’s our example. That’s our calling.

So today, as you lead—in your home, your classroom, your locker room, or your workplace—don’t aim to be impressive. Aim to be faithful. Aim to serve.

Let your leadership whisper the same word William Booth once sent to thousands: Others.

Thanks for Reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Share The 3-Point-Play Devotional

Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truths.

QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

Welcome Back!!!

I pray your Easter was a joyful celebration—rejoicing in the risen Savior, cherishing moments with loved ones, and reflecting on the power of the empty tomb. Whether it included family gatherings, shared meals, or quiet rest, may your heart have been refreshed by the hope and victory we have in Jesus.

Now here we are, heading into the final stretch of the school year. You remember the feeling, right? Windows open, birds chirping, warm breezes blowing... and every student is suddenly an expert in countdown math. They know exactly how many days are left, how low their grade can go and still dodge finals, and how fast they can mentally check out. Focus? Gone. Motivation? Missing. And honestly, we adults aren’t much better.

We’re all watching a clock. For students, it’s summer break. For us, it’s Friday at 4:00 PM when we can punch out for the weekend. We’re all just trying to survive until the clock runs out.

But this is where discipline, consistency and perseverance comes in.

With that being said let’s jump into Episode 4 of the 3-Point-Play.

In Due Season

#1 Discipline, Consistency, Perserverance

It’s human nature to want to coast once we’ve done just enough. As a student maybe you’ve aced a test and figured, “I can relax now—I’ll still pass.” But giving our best all the time? That’s something different. That’s something special.

For adults, coasting might look a little different—but it’s just as tempting. Maybe you’ve hit your sales goal for the quarter, so you let a few calls slide. Or you’ve been a Rockstar parent all week, so you zone out and hand the kids a screen just to buy some peace and quiet. Maybe you’ve served faithfully at church or in your community, and now you’re thinking, “I’ve done my part for a while—I’ll step back.”

We all have moments when we’re tempted to hit cruise control.

But discipline calls us to more. Not perfection—but faithfulness, consistency. Jesus didn’t stop short when He’d done “enough.” He emptied all of himself, every step of the way. And when we follow His lead, we discover that the real reward isn’t in crossing the finish line early—it’s in running every part of the race with purpose.

It takes discipline and consistency to keep showing up with excellence—even when no one’s watching, even when the pressure’s off, even when it would be easier to settle. And that kind of commitment? That’s exactly what Jesus modeled for us.

Jesus never coasted. He lived every moment with purpose, pouring Himself out completely—to the extent of laying down his life on the cross. He was faithful in the little things and relentless in His mission, all the way to death, burial and his resurrection.

Discipline isn’t just about staying on track—it’s about staying true to who God has called us to be, day in and day out.

Being where your feet are—that takes discipline. And discipline, though it’s not always flashy, is the secret weapon that builds champions, both in sports and in faith.

It’s not about wishing you were somewhere else, doing something different. It’s not about getting lost in longing for what God hasn’t given you.

Between Wilson and Charlie, Heather and I experienced two heartbreaking pregnancy losses. Like many who walk the road of infertility, we wrestled with deep disappointment and grief. We asked the hard questions: Why us? Haven’t we been faithful? Why won’t You bless us, Lord?

It’s so easy to fix our eyes on what we’re missing, rather than on what we’ve been given. But the truth is, gratitude, contentment, and joy aren’t found in having it all—they’re found in trusting the One who holds it all.

The words discipline and disciple both come from the Latin word discipi, meaning “to learn.” In seasons of waiting, pain, or confusion, we’re invited to learn—about God’s faithfulness, our dependence on Him, and the strength He provides when we feel weak.

The key? Be where your feet are. Stay rooted in His Word. Keep showing up in trust, even when the answers don’t come quickly. God is at work in the midst of it all.

#2 Scripture

The Word of God has a lot to say about consistency, discipline, and perseverance. These aren’t just buzzwords for athletes. They’re essential habits for anyone serious about spiritual growth.

Just like in basketball or training for a marathon, progress in your faith doesn’t happen in one day or even a few days—it’s built through daily, intentional obedience. There is a saying: “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” Spiritual discipline takes time. You won’t master the Bible in a week, or feel close to God after just one prayer. Like building a house, it’s brick by brick—day by day. You don’t grow closer to God on accident. It takes showing up, again and again, even when it’s hard, even when it feels like nothing is changing.

Hebrews 12:11 reminds us:

“For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.”

Discipline isn’t supposed to feel good in the moment. It’s uncomfortable. It stretches us. But it leads to something better—a life shaped by righteousness and peace.

In lifting weights, if you aren’t tired or sore after a good workout, you won’t see a physical change. It’s hard, it stinks, but it’s worth it. And one workout doesn’t constitute being stronger. It’s discipline, perseverance and consistency over time that makes the difference.

Jesus also teaches us about consistency in the small things in Luke 16:10:

“One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much…”

It’s not just the big spiritual moments that matter—it’s the daily choices. Opening your Bible. Choosing patience. Praying when it feels dry. It’s in the little that God trains us for the much.

And when we grow weary (because we will), Paul gives us this encouragement in Galatians 6:9:

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”

That phrase—in due season—is key. The harvest doesn't come overnight, but it will come. If we keep going. If we stay faithful.

So today, whether you're feeling fired up or worn down, remember: your quiet consistency is building something eternal. The fruit may not be visible yet, but it’s growing. Don’t give up. Do your best. Don’t despise small beginnings. Stay disciplined. Stay faithful.

God sees every moment of it—and He promises it’s worth it.

We won’t always make the right choices. We will fail. We will falter. And the Apostle Paul—arguably one of the most faithful men in history—knew exactly what that felt like.

In Romans 7:15, Paul writes:

“For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate.”

That’s not weakness talking. That’s honesty. It’s the tension we all live in—between the life we want to live for Christ and the struggle with our flesh that still gets in the way.

Discipline doesn’t mean we always get it right. It means we keep showing up, even when we’ve failed. It means we keep turning to God, even when we feel unworthy. It means we don’t let failure define us—we let grace refine us.

Spiritual growth isn’t about perfection. It’s about progress. It’s about continuing to pursue Jesus when your instincts tell you to quit. It's about holding onto your identity in Christ, not your performance on your worst day.

God isn’t surprised by your struggle. He’s already provided grace for it. So when you mess up, don’t run from Him—run to Him. And then keep going.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• Where in my life am I tempted to do “just enough” to get by—spiritually, professionally, or relationally?

• What area of my life needs more discipline so I can grow deeper as a disciple of Jesus?

• What excuses do I tell myself when I choose average over excellence?

• How does Hebrews 12:11 challenge my view of discipline in the moment versus the reward later?

• Name one habit you can start today that will create more discipline, consistency and perseverance in your spiritual walk.

Discipline doesn’t have to be a dirty word. It teaches us something if we are faithful, consistent and we persevere.

There’s a story about the Giant Timber bamboo tree that perfectly illustrates the power of perseverance and unseen growth.

When a bamboo farmer plants the seed, he waters it and tends the soil—every single day. But for the first four years, he sees absolutely nothing. No sprout, no sign of life. Just dirt. Imagine how discouraging that would be. Most would give up, assume the seed is dead, or that all the work was wasted.

But if the farmer stays faithful—watering, tending, waiting—in the fifth year, something amazing happens: the bamboo suddenly breaks through the ground and grows over 90 feet tall in just 60 days. That’s 1.5 feet per day.

Beneath the surface its root system spans a football field. All that happened in the unseen period. While the farmer was faithful, consistent, and disciplined. All that happened when he kept showing up and watering the bamboo.

The question is: Did the bamboo grow in 60 days—or five years?

The truth is, it was growing all along. Roots were spreading, strengthening, preparing to support the growth that was coming. But none of it was visible.

That’s what spiritual discipline looks like. You may not always see the fruit, but something is always happening beneath the surface.

So, what are you watering today, that you won’t see results for until 5 years from now?

Keep showing up. Keep believing. Keep being consistent.

Just water the bamboo.

Thanks for Reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truths.

The Man on the Middle Cross

It is Passion Week! Some call it holy week, we call it Easter. It is the celebration of the stone being rolled away and our savior Jesus Christ risen from the dead. Below is one of my favorite videos discussing the crucifixion and the cross. This is pastor Allistar Begg talking about “The Man on the Middle Cross".” He is of course referring to Jesus. He makes the great point that we must speak of our salvation in the 3rd person, not the 1st person. ENJOY!

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I’m so glad you’re here again this week. Easter is one of my favorite times of the year. I have two little boys, so we are in full Easter mode right now—Easter bunnies, jellybeans, egg hunts in the yard, and way too much chocolate for a toddler to handle. You know, the full nine yards. It’s loud, fun, and chaotic in the best way.

But beyond the baskets and the bunnies, Easter means so much more. It’s a time for birth and a time for renewal. Nature itself seems to echo that message—flowers bloom, the days get a little longer, and there’s this sense that something fresh is happening. It’s like God is reminding us through creation that He is in the business of bringing life out of what looked dead.

As a dad, I’ve started to see Easter through a different lens. It’s not just about tradition—it’s about transformation. It’s about remembering the empty tomb and the living hope we have in Jesus. It’s about teaching my sons that while candy and eggs are fun, the real gift of Easter is grace, forgiveness, and the promise of new life. And honestly, I need that reminder just as much as they do.

So wherever you are this week—whether you’re feeling renewed or just running on fumes—I hope you’ll lean into the truth that Easter brings: that through Christ, we are never too far gone, never too broken, and never without hope. There’s always a new beginning.

With that being said let’s jump into Episode 3 of the 3-Point-Play.

The Greatest Comeback

#1 The 1993 AFC Wildcard

Before the New England Patriots made headlines with their 28-3 comeback in the Super Bowl, there was a game already etched into the hearts of sports fans simply as “The Comeback.”

It was January 1993—the AFC Wild Card Game between the Houston Oilers and the Buffalo Bills. At halftime, the game looked like a blowout. Houston, led by quarterback Warren Moon, had steamrolled their way to a 28-3 lead. Early in the third quarter, a pick-six made it 35-3. Commentators declared the game over. One announcer famously said, “You could pretty much turn the lights out on the Bills right now.”

But then, something changed.

Buffalo refused to quit. One touchdown became two. Then three. Then four. The once-impossible comeback began to unfold, play by play. By the end of regulation, the score was tied. And in overtime, the Bills completed what was then the largest comeback in NFL history, winning 41-38. It became known, even decades later, as “The Comeback.”

It was an incredible moment in sports history. But as amazing as that comeback was, there is another comeback story that surpasses it. It is and forever will be the greatest comeback of all time, Easter.

#2 Luke 24:6-7

“6 He is not here, but has risen. Remember how he told you, while he was still in Galilee, 7 that the Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men and be crucified and on the third day rise.”

As incredible as the Buffalo Bills' comeback was, it pales in comparison to the greatest comeback the world has ever known—Easter.

After Jesus was crucified, His followers were devastated. The One they had followed, learned from, and believed to be the Messiah was now dead. Their hopes for redemption and a new kingdom felt shattered. Jesus had been wrongfully accused, unfairly tried, and sentenced to die a criminal’s death. He was mocked, spat on, flogged, beaten, and nailed to a Roman cross. After hours of unimaginable suffering, He took His final breath. His lifeless body was taken down and laid in a borrowed tomb. The disciples were terrified, they would surely come after them now. To everyone watching, it was over. Jesus was dead.

But it was only Halftime.

On that 3rd day, the first day of the week, the stone was rolled away. Death could not hold him. The grave had no power over him. He had come to fulfill the law, and It Was Finished.

We all have moments in life where we feel like we are finished. There is no hope. But Easter is a permanent reminder, with God, it is NEVER over. Easter reminds of us this simple truth: Because he lives, I can face tomorrow. Because he lives all fear is gone. Because I know He holds the future. And life is worth the living,Just because He lives!

No matter how bleak, down, or impossible what we are facing may seem, there is always a comeback. Your mistakes don’t define you. Your doubt doesn’t disqualify you. Your sin doesn’t condemn you. Because there is one who has come before us that has paid it all. Because of the Cross and the empty tomb—your comeback has already begun.

#3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• Do you believe in a Risen Savior? How should that affect how you live your life?

• What areas of your life feel “dead,” hopeless, or too far gone right now?

• What kind of “comeback” might God be working in your life right now?

• Are you living with the hope and purpose that comes from knowing Jesus is alive?

• What’s one step you can take this week to live like the tomb is truly empty?

So whatever you are facing today, remember it’s only Saturday and Sunday is coming. He is Risen, He is Risen Indeed. Happy Easter.

Thanks for Reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that just loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truths.

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QUOTE OF THE WEEK:

I’m so glad you’re here again this week. I hope your days have been full of purpose, joy, and a few moments to breathe and reflect. Whether your week brought highs, challenges, or a mix of both, we’re thankful you’ve taken time to pause and dig deeper into God’s Word with me.

Each time we open Scripture, God has something new and personal to speak into our lives. So let’s huddle up, press in to the word of God and get ready to execute God’s calling on our lives with purpose and faith.

Let’s jump into Episode 2 of the 3-Point-Play.

Who are you?

- #1 Mistaken Identity

Have you ever been a victim of mistaken identity—someone thought you were someone else? Or maybe you've been on the other side of it. You confidently walk up to someone in a store, sure it’s your friend or family member, only to realize… it’s a complete stranger. That awkward moment hits—you feel embarrassed, maybe even a little foolish.

In basketball, a team’s identity defines how they play. For my teams, we’re known for playing pressure man-to-man defense and running the dribble drive motion offense. That identity shapes every decision we make—it’s the foundation of our game plan and our approach. In life, identity works the same way. It guides how we think, how we live, and how we respond. So let me ask you—what’s your identity? Who are you?

I’m a basketball coach. That’s my role, it’s something I love doing—but it’s not the core of who I am. Coaching basketball is what I do, it is not who I am. One day, the coaching chapter will close. But my love for God will never end. My true identity isn’t wrapped up in what I do—it’s rooted in who I belong to. My identity is in Christ. Not in a scoreboard, a title, or any earthly success. Solomon reminds us in Ecclesiastes that everything “under the sun” is vanity (hebel in the Hebrew, translated literally as vapor or breath) without God. Everything under the sun is temporary. But in Him, we find purpose that lasts.

Mistaken identity happens in everyday life, but it can also happen in our walk with God. Sometimes, we forget who we are in Christ. We let the world, our failures, or even our feelings define us, rather than the truth of God's Word. And other times, we can mistake who God is—we see Him through the lens of our circumstances, our disappointments, or our limited understanding.

- #2 What does scripture say?

2nd Corinthians 5:17

17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. (ESV)

Galatians 2:20

20 I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. (ESV)

Colossians 3:3

3 For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.(ESV)

Dietrich Bonhoeffer once said, “When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.” When we decide to accept Christ as our Savior, our identity becomes him. He is our identity! In Galatians 2:20, Paul says “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me.” Thank goodness this is true—that it is Christ who is our identity, not ourselves. That Christ took our place on that Cross and bore the full wrath of God. These verses speak specifically to our union with Christ. When Paul says he has been “crucified with Christ,” he’s pointing to the idea that our old self—our sinful nature—died with Jesus. Now, Christ lives in us. That means our thoughts, actions, and choices are no longer driven by selfish ambition or worldly desires, but by the Spirit of the living God in us. Our daily life is now an act of faith, walking closely with the One who gave Himself up so we could truly live.

Paul reminds us in Romans 7: “For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing.” In other words, we all struggle. We fall short, we sin, we miss the mark. None of us are perfect.

But here’s the good news—our identity is not defined by our failures. Through Christ, we are forgiven. Our identity is no longer found in a job, a hobby, a relationship, or any other temporary, worldly thing. Those things will fade. They will leave us empty and searching for more.

But in Christ, we find lasting fulfillment. Our identity in Him sustains us forever. He offers us living water—a source of life that never runs dry. All we have to do is come to Him, die to ourselves, and receive the new identity He gives. We are a new creation in Christ Jesus.

- #3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as followers of Jesus. It’s a moment to pause and reflect honestly:

• Where are you currently placing your identity?

• Are you living out of your true identity in Christ, or are you letting something else define you?

• What practical steps can you take to shift your identity from the temporary things of this world to the eternal truth of who you are in Jesus?

• And one final question—perhaps the most important one: Do you know Jesus?
  Have you become a new creation in Him?

If not, today can be the day. Jesus loves you deeply. He lived a perfect life, died a sinner’s death on the cross in your place, and rose again on the third day so you could walk in freedom and purpose. He invites you to come and follow Him—to lay down your old self and receive new life. He bids you come and die.

Thanks for reading.

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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Welcome to the 3-Point-Play Devotional!

Hello Friends! Welcome to the 3-Point-Play! I’m honored you’re here.

Let me introduce myself: I’m a follower of Christ, a husband, a dad, a high school math teacher, and a Varsity boys basketball coach. I’m married to Heather Goodwin Wallace. We met over Christian Mingle and the rest as they say is history. She teaches nursing at Jacksonville State University and together we’re raising two amazing little boys: Wilson (our high-energy 4-year-old that loves dinosaurs, Paw Patrol and Daddy Basketball) and Charlie (our 1 year old that loves life).

My heart beats for Jesus, people, and the chance to make a difference, whether it’s in the classroom, the gym, our small group or everyday life. That’s what this devotional is all about—connecting faith and real life through simple, powerful truths.

So, what is the 3-Point-Play?

Each post delivers three quick, meaningful points, designed to encourage, challenge, and equip you—whether you’re a coach, teacher, parent, or just someone trying to follow Jesus more closely.

Here’s the format:

- Point #1: Motivation for the Heart

This will always be a word of encouragement, a quote, a story, or a thought—rooted in Scripture and grounded in truth. Life gets heavy, and we all need a reminder of who God is and who we are in Him.

- Point #2: A Biblical Perspective

This point zooms in on a short passage or spiritual principle—something to reflect on or apply to your daily walk. It might tie into leadership, relationships, or personal growth, always pointing back to Jesus.

- Point #3: A Real-Life Application

Faith gets real when it’s lived out. This third point brings it all together—how the message intersects with family, work, struggles, or victories. It’s where theology meets Friday night.

I’ll be honest—nothing I share here is revolutionary. Most of it has been shaped by mentors, books, sermons, and life’s daily ups and downs. But I believe God uses ordinary people and ordinary moments to do extraordinary things. And I’m here to pass along whatever wisdom He’s graciously shared with me.

So let’s huddle up, press in to the word of God and get ready to execute God’s calling on our lives with purpose and faith.

Let’s jump into Episode 1 of the 3-Point-Play.

Let’s Start with the Foundation

- #1: The Leaning Tower of South Padre Island

Back in 2006, a well-known company announced plans to build a luxury condo tower on South Padre Island, Texas. The project was meant to be something special—a 31-story high-rise with 147 upscale units and all the extras you'd expect: a gym, swimming pools, a spa, and even a media room. The design included a large parking garage at the base, with the homes starting 55 feet above sea level. When finished, the building would have reached 445 feet, making it one of the tallest in the Rio Grande Valley. It was built to handle strong coastal winds, with three large, reinforced concrete walls at its core. Thanks to its location, the condos would have offered stunning views of both the Gulf of Mexico and the Laguna Madre. Prices were expected to start around $2 million per unit.

But there was an issue once the building was completed. During construction, the building began to sink. It sank almost 14 inches over a period of 6 months. The supporting clay and sand underneath began to buckle. The building began to lean cracking the walls. The building was deemed a loss and torn down. Costing the development millions of dollars.

In basketball, we call them fundamentals. They are the building blocks, what you found your program on. Without out solid fundamentals (shooting, passing, finishing, defense) a basketball player and basketball team will fall, just like tower did. As a Christian without a foundation in Jesus, we will fall. It is our fundamentals, our foundation.

- #2 Matthew 7:24-25 (ESV)

24 “Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock.”

This parable is the powerful conclusion to Jesus’ greatest sermon—the Sermon on the Mount. Here, Jesus draws a clear line in the proverbial sand, declaring that the only secure foundation for life is found in Him. Building your life on Christ—trusting in His words and putting your faith in Him—is the only way to keep your house from falling when the storms come.

In contrast, placing our trust in things like money, work, fame, or worldly pleasure will always leave us empty. Solomon called these pursuits “vanity” in the book of Ecclesiastes. But when we build our lives on the solid rock of Christ, we can stand firm, even as the culture around us shifts and the world’s definition of truth and morality constantly changes.

Jesus calls us not only to hear His words but to do them. To be clear—we are saved by grace through faith, as Ephesians 2:8 clearly states. But those who truly love Jesus and have built their lives on Him will desire to obey His commands. Yes, we’re all human, and we all fall short. But our aim should always be to follow Him wholeheartedly and do what He says. I’m reminded of Mary, the mother of Jesus, at the scene of His first miracle. In John 2:5, she simply told the servants, “Do whatever He tells you.” That same call echoes to us today: trust Him, love Him, and obey Him—no matter what.

These are our fundamentals as Christians; this is our foundation.

- #3 Application

This is where our faith becomes real—where the rubber truly meets the road for us as believers. It’s a moment for honest reflection:

• In what areas of your life are you building on a solid foundation?

• Are there places where you’ve heard God’s Word but haven’t yet acted on it?

• What storms have you faced—or are you facing right now?

• What are some practical ways you can build your life on Jesus and His teachings this week?

The truth is, it’s not if storms will come, but when. Life will bring pressure, pain, and adversity. So the question is—are you ready? Make sure your faith is anchored to the Rock. Make sure your foundation is strong, your life is aligned, and your house is built to stand when the winds rise.

Thanks for Reading,

Until next time—live by faith, lead with love, and leave it all on the floor.

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